Dr. Etel Leit’s talk is a revelation in how we think about intimacy. With humor, honesty, and a fearless willingness to share her own turning point, she challenges the idea that I love you is the pinnacle of connection. Instead, she shows how thank you, and bragging about your partner, anchored in gratitude and acknowledgment, can rewire trust, heal wounds, and change the trajectory of a relationship.

As her coach, I watched Etel take her years of clinical expertise and blend it with raw storytelling that cuts straight to the heart. She doesn’t just tell us what’s wrong with modern communication, she gives us the tools to shift it. This talk is bold, brave, and destined to make people everywhere rethink what true emotional connection sounds like.

Dr. Etel Leit’s talk is a revelation in how we think about intimacy. With humor, honesty, and a fearless willingness to share her own turning point, she challenges the idea that “I love you” is the pinnacle of connection. Instead, she shows how “thank you”, and bragging about your partner, anchored in gratitude and acknowledgment, can rewire trust, heal wounds, and change the trajectory of a relationship.

As her coach, I watched Etel take her years of clinical expertise and blend it with raw storytelling that cuts straight to the heart. She doesn’t just tell us what’s wrong with modern communication, she gives us the tools to shift it. This talk is bold, brave, and destined to make people everywhere rethink what true emotional connection sounds like.

Tanja Diamond

2x TEDx Speaker, Former TEDx Organizer, Speaker Coach

We went from fighting every week to actually laughing together again. Etel didn’t just give us tools — she flipped the way we see each other. For the first time in years, we feel like a team, even with the chaos of parenting.

Maya & Daniel, 38 & 41,

Tech Entrepreneur + Attorney

I kept attracting unavailable men. Same story, different face. After Etel, I finally understood my patterns. Now I’m in a relationship that feels safe, secure, and real — the kind of love I thought didn’t exist for me.

Sarah, 35

Marketing Executive

I believed I had to choose: power in business or love at home. Etel shattered that lie. Now I run my company AND have a relationship that feels like home. No trade-offs, no masks.

Leila, 42

CEO

On paper, I had it all. Inside, I was empty. Etel helped me see that love fuels everything, even business. Today my relationship is thriving… and my company is too.

David, 47

Startup Founder

What shocked me wasn’t what Etel said, it was how deeply she saw me. I walked in feeling broken and left knowing I was capable of love without losing myself.

Nina, 29

Therapist-in-training

I used to think emotions had no place in leadership. Etel called me out with love. The shift? My marriage healed AND my team finally trusts me. That’s ROI you can’t put a number on.

Marc, 51

CFO

I thought we were done. Too many fights, too much distance. Etel gave us language for what we couldn’t say. We didn’t just save our marriage, we found each other again.

Anya, 37

Designer + Mom of Three